Energy Is Everything
Writing by Sara Calabro on raising your frequency
The number-one predictor of success
Scroll through social media or walk through a nice neighborhood and you may think success is determined by where someone goes to school, lives, or works. Or by their family, friends, or partner. These things might influence your likelihood of success but they don’t predict it.
How to find what you’re looking for
Life purpose can feel elusive. One of the best ways to find it is noticing when you feel lost. When we discover the path we're on isn't going where we want it to, we tend to feel anxious and blame ourselves. But getting lost is an intrinsic part of finding what you're looking for.
It’s time to make a true decision
Decision making is something that comes up often in coaching sessions. A lot of clients get stuck on making decisions because the "how" feels unclear. There are too many unknowns. Because unknowns are scary, it's easy to fall into a pattern of avoidance.
The cure for box-checker syndrome
Box-checker syndrome is a condition where your life feels like a never-ending list of boxes to be checked. The box-checking pattern is so ingrained that it’s difficult to loosen the grip long enough to examine the boxes and make sure you’re checking the right ones.
How seasons affect you
Humans are part of a natural ecosystem. The seasons factor significantly into how we feel. Yet most of us forget we’re creatures who are influenced by the forces of nature. This makes us prone to lower emotional states and physical symptoms during seasonal transitions.
Why you keep getting stuck
Ever get a new idea and feel really excited about it, only to be completely disinterested a few days later? Or maybe you jump in, feel like you’re headed down the right path, start seeing some success... then suddenly you’re overwhelmed by all the reasons it won’t work?
You can change your life in one year
If you’re feeling lost, rejected, confused, sad, angry, defeated, scared, or hopeless because your personal or professional life isn't where you hoped it would be right now, I have a tip: Don't underestimate what you can accomplish in one year.
How to do EFT tapping
Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is a somatic practice of tapping acupressure points while focusing on a challenge in your life. The goal is to neutralize difficult emotions by sending your brain and body new signals. Here’s how to perform the standard EFT protocol.
The best compliment you can receive
The best compliment is not what you think. It has nothing to do with how you look, or how much money you make, or how smart you are. Although often well intentioned, those types of compliments come from culturally conditioned thinking. This one is different.
How to get the most out of a coaching session
Once you’ve decided to take the plunge and try working with a coach, there are some important things to know so that you can get the most out of your sessions. Here are 4 things you can do to improve your chances of having a great coaching session.
This simple coaching tool will change your life
“Change your thoughts, change your life” is an adage that’s at the core of coaching. Coaching helps people change their life by changing their mindset. And there’s one tool that underlies all the different forms of mindset shifting used by coaches.
What to expect in a coaching session
Coaching is becoming more mainstream. Yet relative to other modalities, it’s still unfamiliar to many people. Every coaching session is different, however, there are some things you’re likely to encounter in most one-on-one coaching sessions.
How to figure out what you really want
Ever feel like you want things to be different but can’t pinpoint exactly how? Know you’re meant for more but have no idea where to begin figuring out your destiny? If you have a sense that your life isn’t quite what it could be, this coaching tool can help.
The two types of coaching
There are different styles of coaching. Transactional coaching is very focused on actions and involves a dynamic where the coach tells the client what to do. There’s also transformational coaching, which goes beneath the surface to address the root causes of what’s getting in your way.
Project (don’t protect) your energy
Resolutions force us out of our comfort zones and serve as evidence that we can do hard things. But, the popular idea that we must protect our energy in order to accomplish goals feels shortsighted. What if, instead of trying so hard to protect our energy, we focused on projecting it?
Let yourself have a winter
Human beings are reflections of the natural world that surrounds us. We are part of the same ecosystem. As such, the qualities of a particular season should be reflected in all parts of that ecosystem. Nature provides us with a blueprint for how to be in winter. Slow down. Get quiet. Reflect.
Are you at a crossroads?
I recently made a discovery that kinda blew my mind because it confirmed my intuition about the intersection between coaching and Five Element acupuncture. Here’s why coaching is the best modality for navigating the crossroads moments of life.
What life coaches do and don’t do
Despite its increasing popularity, life coaching remains largely misunderstood. Here are some specific things life coaches do—and don’t do—to help you bridge the gap between where you are now and where you want to go next.
How EFT tapping changes your mindset
Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), also known as tapping, is a simple practice that can change your outlook on life. It helps you explore and transform difficult emotions, which naturally starts dismantling the thoughts and beliefs behind those emotions.
Low energy in Gen X women is its own thing
Gen X, the generation born between 1965 and 1980, is often described as “highly capable” and “fiercely independent.” These characteristics are usually offered as compliments but what they’ve actually done is produced is a lot of uniquely exhausted people, especially women.